Are you worried about your kids seemingly constant refusal of meals? Well, it’s true that many parents experience this difficulty, with some kids going through periods of fussy eating. But, what can you do about it?
1) Be their role model
Children learn many of their behaviours by watching what their older siblings and parents do. Remember that pretty much everything you say, and do is noticed by your kids, whether consciously, or not. So, take care with what you say, or how you react at meal times, and try to be enthusiastic about healthy foods! Your kids will follow suit by mimicking your actions and words.
2) Be persistent
Studies show that the best way to get kids to eat vegetables is to keep serving them. Try serving a small portion, and tell your child that they don’t have to finish the lot, but that you expect them to have at least one bite. Allowing them to stop at one bite, makes trying new foods less scary. After repeating this, on average eight times, most children decide to eat what you’ve presented to them. But, remember never force your child to eat a particular food.
3) Be fair
Don’t make special foods for children. Meals should be simply served, with parents and older children eating the same foods. Children will learn that this is what happens at meal times, and will follow suit. If they do refuse to eat what you’ve served, try not to offer an alternative meal.
4) Be creative
Try different ways of serving vegetables for the whole family. Many kids love raw vegetables, why not try making silly faces or animals with a variety of raw veggies? You could use red and yellow pepper strips, cherry tomatoes, carrot sticks, celery, mini corn cobs, or green beans. Raw vegetables also taste great served with hummus, or a combination of mashed avocado, yoghurt, and lemon juice. Barbecuing vegetables will give them a different taste, which kids may prefer, so it’s worth giving this a go too.
5) Be sneaky
Try grating vegetables, such as carrots or zucchini, or add cubed eggplant, or tomatoes to your dishes. Dole suggest making fruits and vegetables convenient by placing them in spots where kids will see them first. Or, why not try having “grab and go snacks” in small plastic bags (cut up raw vegetables, peeled and segmented oranges etc) ready in your fridge for a quick and easy snack.
For a fun way to get your kids interested in eating well, try this great recipe Trees in a Broccoli Forrest. It sounds like fun!
Remember, one of the most important things you can do is to stay calm! While this may be difficult at times, try to persevere, as getting upset won’t help you, or the rest of your family.
Best wishes!



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We taught Jed to pretend that broccoli florets were trees, while teaching him a little about trees in the process.
Take a floret of broccoli,say…” A deciduous tree
in the summer-time”
Munch off the top, and say…” A deciduous tree in the winter-time!”
Never known to fail !
Glenn – this is totally classic!! Armen and I enjoyed this VERY much!!
Do you have any other educational tips like this?? You could write a guest post for me here! It would be very unique.
Another tip that works for me, with our 3, and 4 year olds, is about helping them to eat fruit.
When our little girl ( who, like any child, has a fondness for biscuits!) looks for a biscuit…I had a brainwave one day!
A Banana Challenge!
With an exciting attitude, get a banana, and challenge them to a competition.
Taking turns having bites (taking quite small ones yourself) the challenge is, to be the one to get the last bite! (obviously letting them win most times!)
I couldn’t believe how well this worked the first time, and every time since. To the point where they are begging for another competition!
I’ve just realized this could be adapted for eating segments of orange time-about.
Guest post? Might be unique, but might not be great reading
Glenn – what a brilliant idea, I can imagine how much they would love this challenge!!!
If you’d like to give writing a shot I’d be more than happy to post it here!