Help: I Don’t Like Fruit and Veggies!

I had a great question from one of my readers recently, and wanted to share the answer with everyone:

The question is about trying to lose weight when you don’t like fruits and vegetables, and live with someone who often cooks unhealthy meals.

How to eat a healthy diet

One of the most important things you can do, when trying to eat healthier, is to make small changes, which you can stick with. So, rather than trying to change everything at once, take it step by step, accomplishing one or two goals at a time.

Something you may want to try is Goal Setting, as this is an excellent way to focus your mind on what you want to achieve. To get started try using my Goal Setting Chart, to record a few goals which are important to you right now.

Guidelines for daily healthy eating:

  • Plenty of fruit and vegetables (aim for 1-2 portions of fruit, and 3-4 portions of vegetables)
  • Plenty of bread, rice, potatoes, pasta and other starchy foods – choose wholegrain varieties whenever you can (5 portions)
  • Some milk and dairy foods (2-3 portions)
  • Some meat, fish, eggs, beans and other non-dairy sources of protein (2-3 portions)
  • Just a small amount of foods and drinks high in fat and/or sugar (0-3 portions)

To find out more, check out my Series on Balanced Nutrition.

What to do if you dislike fruits and vegetables

For those who dislike most fruits and vegetables, unfortunately there is no magic pill which can take their place. Eating a variety of different coloured fruits and vegetables is essential when it comes to achieving optimum health. Without adequate intake we put our bodies at risk for certain diseases, illnesses, and possibly even vitamin and mineral deficiencies.

1) Go with what you have initially

If you already enjoy eating particular fruits and vegetables, this a good starting point. My advice would be to regularly serve the vegetables and fruits which you enjoy, and then try to increase the variety of your intake little by little. It’s important to try out new varieties as often as you can – there really are so many to choose from, you’re sure to find something you enjoy!

2) Try out new methods:

Remember, that some vegetables can be disguised in meals -

  • Grate carrots or zuccini into curries or stews.
  • Mash white beans into minced beef.
  • Blend vegetables and add to pasta sauce.

Experiment with different styles of cooking -

  • BBQ, or roasted vegetables taste very different to boiled, or steamed vegetables.
  • Try eating your vegetables raw for extra variety, and crunch.
  • For quick cooking options, vegetables can be microwaved in a little water.

If fresh fruits and vegetables are too expensive -

  • Opt for those that are in season, as they tend to be cheaper.
  • Have a selection of frozen and canned (choose low salt/sugar versions) vegetable options, as these are also acceptable.
  • Keep a supply of frozen and canned (in natural juices) fruit for quick and easy desserts, or snacks.

Mealtimes –

  • For lunch always try to have a salad with, or in, your sandwich, for example dark green lettuce, peppers, tomatoes, onion, cucumbers, and grated carrot etc.
  • Take care with sauces, dressings, and other condiments etc as they tend to be either high in fat, sugar, and salt, or a combination of all three. Try flavouring your foods with herbs, spices, olive oil, lemon juice etc.
  • For dinner try adding some mixed vegetables (fresh or frozen) to noodles/potatoes/pasta/rice dishes, and serve along with lean meat, beans, or egg dishes etc.
  • Ultimately the responsibility lies with you as to what you put into your body. Therefore, if unhealthy foods are served, choose for example to eat chicken and vegetables, and opt not to have the French fries. If you still feel hungry have a slice of wholegrain bread, and a piece of fruit afterwards.
  • Check out my article, A Visual View of Serving Sizes Using Everyday Items, to learn about portion sizing.

Eat well at work to help you reach your fruit and veggie portions:

  • Have a piece of fruit, or fruit salad, on hand for an easy mid-morning snack
  • Prepare sliced raw vegetables, as a mid-afternoon snack.

Finding time for exercise

If you really want to lose weight, the fastest way to do so is to combine a healthy diet with exercise. This doesn’t necessarily mean expensive gym membership, or joining a fitness class; however you should choose an activity that will raise your heart and breathing rate, and aim for 30 minutes a day, at least 5 days each week.

If you’ve been inactive for some time, you can start with 10 minutes each day, and gradually increase the duration, as your strength improves. Here are a few examples of aerobic exercise:

  • Brisk walking
  • Aerobic classes
  • Swimming, or water aerobics
  • Playing tennis, squash, or badminton
  • Cycling

You should also try to incorporate strength training in your routine a couple of times each week. This will help to build strong bones and muscles. If you can’t afford to join a class, or gym, you could lift weights at home, however take care to learn exactly how to use them safely.

It’s important to be as active as you possibly can throughout the day, as every little helps! Check out my previous articles, for more tips on how to achieve this:

Here are a few additional tips from Diet and Fitness Resources:

  • Park at the far end of the car park.
  • Take the stairs instead of the elevator or escalator.
  • Walk the dog for an extra 5 minutes.
  • Go for a walk during your lunch break, or walk to buy your lunch.
  • Walk to the corner shop instead of driving.
  • Walk to a friends houses instead of driving.
  • Get friends and family out of the house for a game of football or Frisbee.
  • Remember, gardening and household chores count as well.

One final question: How many calories does it take to burn one pound?

There are 3,500 calories in one pound of body fat. If you divide 3,500 by 7 days in the week, you get 500 calories. Therefore, you should focus on creating a deficit of 500 calories a day, which over the course of one week, theoretically will result in one pound of weight loss.

This can be achieved either by creating a caloric deficit through your diet, burning the calories through exercise, or a combination of both. I suggest a combination of both as the best option. Again, try to work on making a few small changes in your diet to create a 250-500 calorie deficit, then by adding 30 minutes of exercise each day you will be well on the way to losing 1-2 pounds a week, which is safe, and healthy weight loss.

You may also want to check out, Overcoming Weight Loss Failures.

If you have any other tips or suggestions, please feel free to comment below.

Best wishes!

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David February 18, 2008 at 12:43 am

Anyone interested in getting kids to develop a friendly attitude towards fruits and vegetables should take a look at new book called “The ABC’s of Fruits and Vegetables and Beyond.” Great for kids of all ages – children even learn their alphabet through produce poems. It is coauthored by best-selling food writer David Goldbeck and Jim Henson writer Steve Charney. You can learn more at HealthyHighawys.com

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Nico February 18, 2008 at 7:32 am

I think these tips are very valuable.

I have an overweight friend who wants to lose weight but has a hard time achieving this because everbody in his environment keeps eating unhealthy stuff.

He does efforts to eat healthy, by eating salmon, for example, only to be mixed with cocktail sauce in the same amount as there was salmon. Horror!

Food awareness, social and psychological factors are indeed very important and are often overseen when planning a diet program.

Very coincidentally I talked about this topic on my blog as well. Not in a way as comprehensive as you did here, though.

Great post

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Melanie February 21, 2008 at 3:44 pm

Hi David,

Thanks for recommending the book, I haven’t come across that one. This is actually a topic I discussed briefly in, 5 Ways to Help Kids Eat Veggies , and would really be interested in checking out the book.

Hi Nico – Thanks for your positive feedback!

You are absolutely right, social and psychological factors are so important. Often people don’t understand why they can’t lose weight, when in actual fact if they had a strong support network surrounding them, half the battle would be won! It’s sad that some families and friends aren’t more supportive.

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IAAdmin February 22, 2008 at 8:22 am

Great article with great ideas. I get my strength training at home with hand weights, lunges, and squats.

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Ready Maid February 22, 2008 at 12:29 pm

What a great site! Just ran across it from Blog Explosion. Will keep coming back.

Thanks for a great post, too.

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Melanie February 22, 2008 at 1:20 pm

Hi IA,

Thanks for your positive comments. Strength training really is so important, and so convenient if you can do it at home.

Hi Ready Maid,

Thanks for visiting, and I hope you will keep coming back in the future. Big thanks for the sidebar link to my site as well!! :-)

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brittany July 18, 2008 at 3:56 am

so for the people who dislike fruits and vegetables, you’re pretty much saying we’re screwed and just to work out more?

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Melanie July 18, 2008 at 9:57 am

Hi Brittany,

No, that is the complete opposite of what I said.

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Denise August 27, 2008 at 6:36 am

Fruits are disgusting. Thankfully, I like just about all vegetables.

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Melanie August 27, 2008 at 3:25 pm

Hi Denise,

I’m sorry to hear that you don’t enjoy fruit – do you drink fruit juice? What about smoothies? Or have you tried dried fruit?

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Lydia December 1, 2008 at 12:42 am

I have not liked fruit since i was about 5, but i really want to give it ago and start eating it again. My mum is trying to persuade me to try some, and i do try it, but i just dont like it. I don’t like smoothies either or yougurts with bits in. I really wish i did like fruit!!!!!!!!!! Please help me!!!!!!!! Lydia,aged 11

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Melanie December 2, 2008 at 5:35 pm

Hey Lydia,

Thanks for contacting me.

Have you tried looking up recipes online, or borrowing a fun cookbook from the library? This can be a great way to experiment. Could you try out a recipe for healthy muffins with different types of fruit, such as berries, or pineapple added. Cooking is a great way to begin enjoying all kinds of different foods.

Do you try out new fruits often? Perhaps you have been sticking with the same ones – there is so much variety and choice out there, why not try out one new fruit each week until you find some that you do like?

It’s also about thinking WHY you are eating them, ie “they’re good for me!” I used to hate Brussels sprouts when I was a kid…I wouldn’t exactly say I love them, but I can tolerate them, because I know they’re good for me!

Let me know how you get on!!

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Diane Roberson March 4, 2009 at 9:06 am

I’m over 65 and love all veggies but hate most fruits. I like bananas and smoothies that have berries, pineapple and peaches are improved with cottage cheese but I don’t like lowfat cottage cheese and I’m not allowed to eat fat. Pieces of fruit in yogurt is nasty. Maybe if one could puree the oranges, pineapples and other nasty fruit and put them in yogurt or fruit sauce. Fruit sauce over a low fat cake might help the tastebuds a little. Heating would destroy the nutrients so maybe a sauce made by using the blender instead of the stove. Is that possible? Do smoothies and blended fruits lack fiber? It is the strong taste of fruit that makes my taste buds unhappy and my face twist and pucker up with disgust. Help!!!

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Melanie March 4, 2009 at 8:55 pm

Hi Diane,
Do you try new fruits regularly? I think this is important to help expand your tastebuds. Perhaps eating them frozen would be more acceptable? Berries, grapes and mango are good frozen!

The whole fruit would obviously be better. When you blend fruit it breaks it down, although it will contain some fibre. If you do blend your fruit, make sure you don’t eat too much, because it would be very easy to eat more than normal (and not benefit so much from the fibre) so you get a sugar high.

I don’t think you need to worry too much though. If you are eating plenty of veggies, you will be getting lots of nutrients. However, you should try to eat a good range of different foods each day, including some fruit!

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Stacey March 9, 2009 at 12:58 am

Hiya,

Im 18 years old and would really like to loose weight, but the things is that wen i was a baby till i was about 12 the only thing i would eat would be bread and cheese everything else i would throw back up. But for the past 6 years i have ate so much more different food, i now eat chicken and pasta. I used to be very skinny and have a poor diet to the point i didnt have any fingernails.

Over the pass 3 years iv put on alot of weight and would really like to loose a couple of stones. I cant eat fruit or veg beaucse they make me feel sick and i dont know if thats beacuse i was bad when i was young and was force fed stuff and given really bad milkshakes.

I have tried deit and they one last a couple of weeks. I try and doo as much exercise as i can, i cycle and i walk every where, but its the food i eat that leting me down.

I would really like some advise to get me over this, beacuse i really do wnna start eating healthy and start loosing weight. Can you help me ?

Stacey

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Melanie March 11, 2009 at 6:57 pm

Hi Stacey,
Have you signed up for my free ebook and newsletters? I think this would be useful, because each week or couple of weeks you’ll get an email from me on how to lead a healthier lifestyle. You can check it out here: http://www.dietriffic.com/2008/10/14/the-lifestyle-makeover-guide/

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Jamie March 26, 2009 at 4:57 am

I’ve been trying to eat healthier, but I hate veggies. Every time I try to eat a salad (or anything green for that matter) I gag. I love fruit, but I know I need to be eating veggies. I don’t understand why my body reacts the way it does to vegetables. I can drink V8 Fusion, but will that cut it? Also, do you have any suggestions?

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Melanie March 27, 2009 at 12:18 am

Hi Jamie,
How often do you try to eat these foods? Is there a particular reason, perhaps from your childhood, as to why you hate greens so much?

What happens when you eat other vegetables, such as carrots, cauliflower, or turnip?

To be honest, you really should get most of your veggies from fresh produce, so the V8 just won’t cut it.

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Crystal May 15, 2009 at 9:36 pm

Try the new Hide-A-Veg, from the Lynn Zetta Company. We’ve been using it for a few months now and it is AWESOME! It’s a dietary supplement of real vegetables that is added striaght to our food “like salt or pepper”! I’ve even snuck it in the kids PB&J and they have NO IDEA they are eating beets and spinach!

I have slowly begun to tell them about the veggie content, and after several tantrums they have started learning that vegetables don’t have to taste bad. It’s the first step. They are not ready yet- more more open to the idea of eating fresh veggies now. :)

It couldn’t hurt and I have snuck it into EVERYTHING! Even Chocolate Chip cookies!

lynnzetta . com

Good luck!

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Melanie May 18, 2009 at 9:21 pm

Hi Crystal,
Thank you for telling me about the Hide-a-veg product, I hadn’t heard of it and I am certainly intrigued.

I think it’s also good that you are also trying to integrate more fresh produce into your children’s diet too, very important for future years.

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gypsy June 12, 2009 at 5:12 pm

Hi my name is gypsy and i have a problem with my husband: He doesnt like vegetables. He always tells me that if I make them taste good he’ll eat them, but they taste good to me but not to him. Do you have any recipe book you may recommend me to making vegetables taste good. I was raised eating veggies but his diet has mostly consisted of meat and starchy foods.

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Melanie June 13, 2009 at 8:08 pm

Hi Gypsy,
Have you tried cooking them in different ways? For example BBQ-ing or roasting, rather than boiling or steaming your vegetables? Raw veggies also taste very different to cooked, so may be more acceptable to your husband. Perhaps adding different herbs, spices or citrus fruits to them??

Here’s an article you may find helpful: http://www.neversaydiet.com/slideshow/5-most-hated-fruits-amp-veggies-made-tasty

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Fiona July 25, 2009 at 7:01 am

I have a really hard time with most veggies and many fruits because of their textures. Even if the taste is bad, I can force myself to eat just about anything, but the natural textures of a lot of produce just seem to bother me to the point of gagging. :( I have recently tried to branch out a little to the point where now I like a lot more fruits (apples, bananas, mangoes, cantaloupe, peaches), and veggies like potatoes and mushrooms, but I can’t stomach leafy greens, peas, beans, almost anything green, crunchy or chewy really, to the point where I can’t even handle lettuce or tomato in my sandwiches. I also can’t stand the texture of berries or the crunchiness of watermelon. For some reason these things just don’t register with my body as “food,” and I feel like I’m eating a blade of grass or something. Even though I have a thin frame, I would really like to eat more healthily, but most people don’t seem to be very helpful. Everyone downs salads like they’re eating the most normal thing in the world, and I wish I could eat them so easily too!

One thing is for sure, I am going to make certain that when I have kids they eat healthy from birth and don’t dodge their veggies.

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Melanie July 25, 2009 at 7:33 pm

Hi Fiona,
It sounds tough…although the fact that you try to “branch out” is good. I suppose the only thing you can do is keep trying.

How do you feel about fruit and vegetable smoothies or fresh juice?

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